These realities along with my daughter's monumental melt-downs, deficits in receptive understanding, learning disabilities, and short-attention span made me wonder (more than twice) if I would be able to handle all the challenges that were promised to present themselves. In the process of figuring that out, I realized I would have to go places in my own mind that I never knew existed. To me, it seemed as if I was being required to walk down long tunnels and zig-zag pathways in order to understand how my daughter perceived the world. During the process of "learning how she learns", I learned a lot about myself.
|The Backwards E Turned Forward|
|Marlin from Finding Nemo|
After one solid month of homeschooling, frustration quickly set in. It got so bad that I couldn't think things through. I couldn't focus on what lesson to move onto or which lesson to stay with. My creativity began to wane and I began to wonder, "Am I capable of homeschooling my little girl?" I started to believe I wasn't. But one day I stopped everything and watched her play. I had done this thousands of times, but this time was different. I began to understand I did not have any idea how the inner workings of my daughter's mind operated. I made a decision to find out how her mind operates. This one decision changed our entire homeschooling experience.
No, it did not get any easier. I just realized that my own mind had to slow down in order to understand hers (I will add that it seemed like her mind was going a hundred miles per hour, at times). I decided to stop making her "come out" of her world and I took the time to "go into" her world with her and play games or make-believe.
|Our Home School|
Many children diagnosed with an ASD love water, bright lights, and sensory-stimulating games and activities. I watched my little girl and learned what made her happy and what she liked to do while she was in her world. I then made the step forward to enter her world. After a while, my daughter began to see I was genuinely interested in what was going on in her world. She then became more and more interested in the tasks that I requested her to complete. This was especially apparent when I brought activities from her world out and used them in our lessons. In education, this is a form of "motivating through restricted interests". I found that many times her interests were restricted because she had problems understanding what was going on around her, so she chose to focus on something she could understand.
The visual mind of a child diagnosed with an ASD is usually quite vivid, bright, and full of sensory-like animations. Pictures, videos (YouTube), and my own created performances and lessons (real-life & video) is how I was able to teach my daughter about our solar system, the human body, and various other concepts. Technology also proved to be a great help. My little girl's father (my husband) created wonderfully, animated PowerPoint presentations that explained the concepts of addition and subtraction. Worksheets were built using online software, Microsoft Word, and educational websites. There are many online educational resources that are very user-friendly. We currently use IXL.com for math and Starfall.com for reading.
Some of the methods and strategies I used while homeschooling were:
Discrete Trial Teaching (Training) - This website provides you with the all the information you will need to implement this teaching approach. You will find step-by-step instructions as well as an implementation checklist.
Time Delay Instruction - Here you will find step-by-step instructions, an implementation checklist, and data collection sheets.
Restricted Interests as Motivators - This is a wonderful journal article on how effective this instructional approach can be. Pixar Animations worked well for my daughter. She learned to write by writing stories directly from the "beginning reader" books. She also learned to count, picture name, and read from all of these books. As she grew older, I used whatever she was interested in to move her from one concept to the next. Buzz Lightyear did wonders in explaining the "space" concept to her.
|Pixar Animations Worked Wonders!|
Visually appealing instructional environment - word walls, wall areas that are papered up for drawing, painting, and/or writing, age-appropriate songs & poems hanging up, animals, picture concepts, colors, shapes, etc.
Repetition - The practice of taking a task and repeating it over and over and over. Sometimes it may take as many as one hundred times before the concept comes to life. I will admit this "technique" just about drove me mad until right after I realized my little girl was pronouncing words better, her vocabulary began to steadily increase, her writing became more legible, and she began to understand that certain behavior was inappropriate. The practice of repetition can be very monotonous but once you see the first hurdle the child jumps because of it, it will become apart of how you teach.
"The world" as one big learning environment - There are great and wonderful things to be learned at the park, at the zoo, at the pool, and everywhere else around the Earth. The first time my daughter learned how to write her numbers was in the sand at a playground. FUN!
Four years ago, if someone had told me that my daughter would one day be reading, writing, and doing math, I would never in a million years have believed it would have been because I taught her We still have a long way to go, but I am very thankful that I was given the opportunity to teach my child for as long as I did. And more than anything, I am thankful I got to see my daughter's face light up every time she learned something new.
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